1st Birthday Parties

As G’s first birthday party {rapidly} approaches, I have, naturally, found myself knee-deep in party planning. Like with many aspects of mommyhood, my approach to the framework of his party was, “What will work best for G and for us?” I think with the wee-ones, that’s the safest starting point.

With that said, planning a baby’s first birthday is a “first” for me, so I did a tad bit of research in hopes of uncovering some helpful tips. Here are a few that I found useful enough to share — albeit, a bit “commonsensical.” (looks like there’s a hung jury on whether or not ‘commonsensical’ is a word…it’s totally a word here on my blog…)

1) Keep it small and keep it short.
These are both pretty self-explanatory and, likely, good ideas.

I’m not sure how we’ll score on “keeping it small,” but G is pretty familiar with all of his expected guests which I think is a big plus. I don’t anticipate a whole boat-load of people, so hopefully G won’t find himself overwhelmed. Additionally, I’ve allotted two hours for the party in an attempt to avoid over-stimulation and possible fussiness.

2) Cater to the kiddos.
As an adult, it can be easy to slip into “grown-up party planning mode” and to start outlining needs based on the adults instead of the kiddos.

This one is huge {i.m.o.}. Even though G is only turning one, it’s important for me to remember that this party is for him and other wee-ones his age. Sure, I hope to make it fun for the adults, too, but I tried to base most of the major decisions (food, entertainment, location, timeline, etc) around G’s needs.

3) Save presents for later.
Avoid chaos and tension by opening gifts after the party is over.

Honestly, I can’t decide what I’m going to do on this one. I really like the idea of pushing them off until after the party — avoiding the “spotlight” moment where everyone just sits around watching G play with tissue paper and gift bags. Plus, I think the event would be more enjoyable for him in a more calm environment. Notwithstanding, gift-givers love to watch the recipient open their gift. Don’t you agree? I certainly don’t want to disappoint anyone who takes the time to come to the party. Any opinions on this one?

4) Less is more.
Keep the party simple.

I don’t really have any major “plans” for G’s party. I simply wanted to create a time for him to enjoy himself and his friends. Not to mention, shuffling one-year-olds through a laundry list of activities sounds like a recipe for stress. I definitely went the simple route.

5) No smash-cake moment.
Similar to “saving the presents for later,” some sites suggest nixing the big cake smash and any “performance” anxiety.

Here again, the jury’s out. I might have a smash-cake moment on his actual birthday, or after the party with just family. BUT, everyone comes to the party expecting to see the little tike in his/her dipee, tearing into the birthday cake. Thoughts? Either way, it will be a priceless moment.

My $.02:
Don’t over-think it.

Create a fun, loving, baby-centered environment and simply enjoy your baby and your guests. A non-stressed mommy {and daddy} will make a non-stressed baby. Most of the time, right?!?!?